I really hope I can upload all of this stuff this time because I am tired of typing all of this stuff out on a french keyboard in an email. In the past month I: turned 29, got a new cat, finally arranged my house/finished getting my furniture (mostly) built, discovered vraiment gray hairs, and just showed my laptop to Kodjo's second wife. She has never seen one before. For those of you who are wondering about my "togolese wife," no I am not 'officially' married. I am seeing a fellow PCV; she describes herself as married (to me) to lessen unwanted attention in village. Her husband comes to visit her every couple of months, depending.